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Best Books I Read in 2024

It’s never too late for a “Best Of Last Year” list! (Checks calendar.) Well, I’m pushing it, faithful readers, but I have a valid excuse: We adopted a 6-year-old rescue dog who eats up all of my time. With zero information about what type of training she had had before, we’re trying to get her to follow some modicum of decency around us. She’s basically middle aged in human years; it’s like I’m mansplaining our house rules to a 42-year-old woman.

Anyway, the books. I read 35 books in 2024. I was selective and actually abandoned some books mid-read, thus much of what I finished was stuff that I liked. My top 10 could really be a top 20 (I wish I had time to give descriptions on all the “Books That Just Missed the Cut” below, but see above about timesucking dog.)

  1. Glorious Exploits, Ferdia Lennon. A hilarious and heartbreaking historical novel unlike any I’ve read, Irish author Lennon’s debut and hopefully not his last. Based on the true events of the Peloponnesian War, when in 412 BCE the Athenian navy attacks Syracuse but is defeated; hundreds of Athenians are captured and imprisoned in a rock quarry, where they are guarded but not given provisions, left to waste away. (Bear with me here.) Two local Syracusans, Lampo and Gelon, come up with a plan to have the Athenian prisoners stage their countryman Euripedes’ recent play “Medea.” Uniquely told in contemporary Irish language, this book deftly maneuvers between comedy, tragedy, revenge, injustice, war, finding humanity in our enemies and inhumanity in our friends, love, and how to have hope when all seems lost.

2. You Could Make This Place Beautiful, Maggie Smith. This memoir by the poet Maggie Smith is so specific that I couldn’t believe it would work: It starts when Smith discovers that her husband is cheating on her. What follows is devastating, wryly funny, and (of course, considering she is a poet) beautifully worded. This is a revenge memoir, but I am sure Smith would bristle at that description. Some chapters are just a few words long but still hit like bombs. You might recognize Smith’s most famous poem, “Good Bones,” which went viral when it was published. Here, she ruminates on what “success” means, how to protect one’s children, and how to live with and move on from heartbreak.

3. Sandwich, Catherine Newman. At this point, I would read Newman’s grocery list and probably be entertained. She tells stories that feel so real and lived-in. In this one, the narrator is Rocky, a 50-something woman who is planning her family’s annual weeklong visit to Cape Cod. Her kids are (nearly) grown up, her parents are aging and showing signs of losing their independence, her relationship with her husband has its fluctuations, and meanwhile she’s trying to keep everyone fed and happy. Very relatable, funny, and moving. Newman’s ability in particular to describe family dynamics and lay out what a healthy, respectful relationship with the younger generation can look like are what bring me back to her stories.

4. Intermezzo, Sally Rooney. At this point, I would read Rooney’s grocery list and…dang it, I already used this analogy. But Rooney’s grocery list would probably include graphic lovemaking scenes, so there’s that. Rooney is an Irish author who is so adept at illustrating modern relationship problems and getting the reader to root for multiple characters pitted against each other. This story is about two brothers, 10 years apart in age, in Dublin dealing the with death of their father and their strained connection to each other. Peter, the older brother, is balancing his law practice and situations with his ex, Sylvia, who has chronic pain, and a much younger college student, Naomi, with whom he has almost nothing in common. His brother, Ivan, is a socially awkward former chess prodigy who struggles to find his place in the world and falls in with a much older woman, Margaret, who runs an arts program in rural Ireland. Overlaying all of this is what each brother interprets about each other’s lives and what their father would have thought of them.

5. Practice, Rosalind Brown. English author Brown’s debut novel is for anyone who has procrastinated on a writing assignment (ahem, see first paragraph above). Low-key funny story about Annabel, a student at Oxford who is supposed to be writing an essay about Shakespeare’s sonnets. We hear about all the things that Annabel does as the minutes and hours tick away that don’t involve writing: heating up tea, having breakfast, doing yoga, reheating tea, going for a walk, ruminating on her not-great relationship with a much older man, recounting her sexual history, all told in a semi stream of conscious way. This reminded me of a college roommate I had who stated about 3 weeks before finals: “Okay, if I read 35 pages a day in all my texts, I’ll be caught up at the start of finals week and be able to study.” Next day: “If I read 36.75 pages a day, I’ll finish.” Cut to 3 days before finals: “If I read 245 pages a day…” Annabel puts herself in an untenable position in terms of finishing her essay, and we get to be along for the absurdity of it.

6. The Vulnerables, Sigrid Nunez. I’ve avoided reading “pandemic novels,” stories that try to set things in the near past to provide some sort of commentary on what we all lived through in 2020-2021. I didn’t think I could come across one that would distill things in a way that didn’t feel forced or obvious. Leave it to a National Book Award winner to produce this slim, page-turning story of an older woman who finds unlikely allies during the pandemic (a Gen Zer with whom she finds herself sharing an apartment, a parrot that she ends up long-term birdsitting). This was the type of story that I ended wondering what happened next, and when world events take a turn, I wonder how our narrator would be thinking about them.

7. North Woods, Daniel Mason. This weighty novel deviates from the fictional norm of following characters over the length of the story but rather stays in one place and tells the story of a cabin built in New England by two lovers escaping from a Puritan colony, and we follow the next few hundred years as various inhabitants take over the cabin as it gets expanded and renovated: a deserting English soldier, a pair of never-married twin sisters, a painter, and at times the wildlife that take over the abandoned property, including an ever-present panther, rumored to have survived in New England long after being thought wiped out in that part of the country. Told in the epistolary style (as a series of collected writings, letters, journal entries, nature diaries, etc.), somehow this whole mishmash works, and things that we see in earlier stories circle back and never quite leave. What’s fun is when, in later chapters, newer owners are trying to piece together mysteries (e.g., human remains buried in the yard), and the reader knows what they don’t.

8. Blood In the Machine: The Origins of the Rebellion Against Big Tech, Brian Merchant. This nonfiction work by Merchant, a technology expert, is really a tragedy whose end we already know before reading it. Merchant explains the origins of the term “Luddite,” and how our general knowledge of the meaning (i.e., someone who hates new technology) was purposely distorted by the factory owners who were exploiting tradespeople in England in the 1800s as factory work exploded during the Industrial Revolution. Merchant then connects the battle that English craft and trade workers waged but lost against both the owners and eventually the British Crown with our current dilemmas with artificial intelligence and the ever-increasing rise in automation that threatens to once again eliminate a whole class of workers. This is a tale we see playing out in the current US administration, where “efficiency” means “eliminating jobs to provide more money to the wealthy and corporations,” but we are sold the story that it means that everyone will have free time and get rich. It never works out that way, and learning the story of General Ned Ludd and his various incarnations offers just a glimmer of hope in how to set policy that doesn’t further the gap between rich and poor.

9. Play It As It Lays, Joan Didion. If you’ve never read Didion, who died in 2021, I suggest revisiting some of her works, and her 1970 novel is as good a place to start as any of her works. It’s a searing tale of a woman who, we slowly discover, has suffered a mental breakdown that was treated with powerful drugs, and the story behind what actually happened in her hard life. The protagonist, Maria Wyeth, is a housewife in Hollywood, a far cry from her difficult childhood in a small Nevada mining town, and we flash forward and backward to hear her life. Maria’s young daughter, we learn, is institutionalized, and she wages a battle to get her out. Difficult topics covered include suicide, illegal abortion, lack of knowledge about mental illness, and divorce.

10-12. A trio of books by Sloane Crosley: Cult Classic, Grief Is For People, How Did You Get This Number. This is a cheat, I know, but I did a deep dive into Crosley’s writing, both fiction and memoir, and couldn’t choose just one. Her acerbic voice weaves through all three books: one (Cult Classic) a novel about a woman in New York City who keeps running into her ex-boyfriends and slowly realizes that these coincidences just might be a mind control exercise being performed on her by her ex-boss; the next (Grief) a poignant memoir about trying to move on with her life after two traumatic events within a month of each other: her apartment is robbed of her grandmother’s jewelry and her best friend commits suicide and leaves his loved ones no clues as to why; and the third (Number) an early collection of personal essays that showcase Crosley’s singular voice. I’ve been a fan of Crosley since reading her novel The Clasp; go back and read that one while you’re at it.

Books that just missed the cut (but they deserve your love and attention!): Wild Houses, Colin Barrett; Crying in H Mart, Michelle Zauner; Fire Exit, Morgan Talty; I’m Glad My Mom Died, Jeannette McCurdy; The Vacationers, Emma Straub; This One Wild and Precious Life, Sarah Wilson; What I Ate in One Year, Stanley Tucci; Brothers, Alex Van Halen.

Best Books 2023

Faithful blog readers (hi, Julie!), you might be wondering why I’m just now getting around to posting my list of favorite books that I read in 2023. See previous post about how I hibernate in winter. Wait, is “hibernate” a synonym for “procrastinate”? Then yes, that. Anyway, it was a strange year, a rough year, a busy year, and I only read 30 books. That’s about 1 every 12.2 days. My lovely wife Jen, on the other hand, is a speed reader. I know this because she doesn’t have her own library card and checks out e-books on my card. My checkout history reads like, “In the last month, you checked out 2 nonfiction books on early American history and 20 romance novels.” The librarians are probably looking at me when I’m in the library and thinking, There’s that guy who comes in here and checks out historical nonfiction but who’s really into the steamy Cynster novels by Stephanie Laurens. Weirdo. Ahem. Let’s move on!

  1. We All Want Impossible Things, Katherine Newman. I almost didn’t read this novel because it’s partially about the hospice experience, and we had just suffered a loss in our family. I’m glad I did though; Newman somehow manages to write the funniest and most searingly heartbreaking book of the year about Ash, a woman supporting her closest and oldest friend Edi, as Edi enters hospice. Ash, meanwhile, does not have her sh*t together, and she’s dealing with her two teenage kids, her ex, and several lovers/one-night stands. Very raw, very raunchy, very open-hearted. It was reassuring to read a story about how it’s okay to not be okay and that we all make questionable decisions in the grieving process, but whatever gets us moving forward is okay.

2. The Guest Lecture, Martin Riker. This novel was laugh-out-loud and mind-bending. It’s been a while since I’ve read a great stream-of-consciousness book. The action in this book is limited: Abby is an economics professor invited to give a lecture and is lying in a hotel bed with her sleeping husband and daughter next to her. That’s the plot. She is woefully unprepared for the talk and decides to practice it in her head using the “loci method,” in which you think about a place or building that you are familiar with and assign parts of the speech to rooms in the building. Her topic is twenth-century economist John Maynard Keynes, so she imagines herself giving imaginary Keynes a tour of her home. Hilarity ensues as she gets distracted by things in her (imaginary) house, by Keynes himself, and by thoughts of her past and her most recently denied tenure. Abby’s mind wanders into these topics: feminism, work/life imbalance, economic optimism, climate change, and the insanity of raising children in today’s troubled world. This was one of those books that I made Jen read because I kept reading paragraphs aloud to her.

3. The Happy Couple, Naoise Dolan. It seems as if every year I have a modern Irish novelist on this list, and here we are again. Dolan’s second novel is about Celine and Luke, a couple celebrating their engagement and getting ready for their wedding. Each chapter follows one of the main characters: Celine, a concert pianist who is feeling family pressure and cold feet as the wedding approaches; Luke, who has a history of infidelity and even colder feet; Archie, the best man and Luke’s one-time lover; Phoebe, the bridesmaid and Celine’s sister who in trying to protect Celine might be causing more trouble; and Vivian, a wedding guest who provides the (sort-of) outsider’s view of all of the wedding party’s dysfunction. Dolan’s writing is knife-sharp with wit and relationship analysis.

4. Whalefall, Daniel Kraus. I don’t even know where to begin describing this novel! Jay Gardiner’s guilt leads him to scuba dive off the coast of Carmel, CA, to find the body of his father, a legendary diver who committed suicide. A giant squid appears, and as Jay is escaping the squid, an 80-foot sperm whale rises up and swallows the squid, who in a last gasp reaches out and grabs Jay with a tentacle. Pulled into the whale’s mouth, Jay is forced to fight off the squid and attempt to get out of the whale (who is swallowing Jay through its digestive system), keeping in mind that he only has 1 hour of oxygen left. Gripping and scientifically enlightening (Kraus’ writing reminds me of Andy Weir), the reader is left gasping at every twist and turn in Jay’s dilemma.

5. The Guest, Emma Cline. This tense story is about Alex, a young woman who finds herself ostracized from the Hamptons house of Simon, the wealthy older gentleman who is hosting her (“hosting” is a nice way to put their relationship). Already living on the margins in New York City, Alex tries to find any means possible to staying the week on Long Island to make it to Simon’s Labor Day party and try to find her way back into his good graces. Emma’s poor decision-making (and her dying phone) throw many obstacles in her path; every night is a mystery of whether she will sleep in another rich person’s house, a servant’s quarters, or on the beach. Desperation, living on the margins, class divide, social media appearance vs. reality; this book has a lot to say about modern society.

6. I Have Some Questions for You, Rebecca Makkai. This thriller gripped me, and I couldn’t shake it from my mind for weeks after finishing it. The protagonist, Bodie Kline, is a successful murder-mystery podcaster and college professor. She gets invited back to the Granby School, the private boarding school from which she graduated high school, as a guest teacher of a podcasting class. The recollection of her time on campus comes back to her, especially the murder of her classmate Thalia Keith during their senior year in 1995. As hard as she tried to put those painful memories behind her, she inexorably finds herself turning over the facts of the murder and subsequent conviction of a school janitor. Slowly, everything she thought she knew to be true falls away as her podcasting students dig into her history at the school and interview former classmates and faculty. This book explores issues of class, race, our society’s treatment of young women, and the sexualization of murder victims.

7. Liberation Day, George Saunders. This collection of short stories by Saunders, a Chicago-based author, is Literature with a capital L. Saunders bounces seamlessly among genres and creates mini-worlds filled with dystopia, oppression, absurdity, biting humor and sarcasm, and, surprisingly, nostalgia for our American past. You can’t help but see modern politics as metaphor in these stories. Even as we laugh at the bizarre circumstances in these stories, there’s an uneasiness or nervousness underlying them, as if we know we aren’t so far away from these unreal places becoming our American future.

8. Walking with Sam: A Father, A Son, and Five Hundred Miles Across Spain, Andrew McCarthy. GenXers will recall McCarthy as a reluctant member of the “Brat Pack,” a group of young actors lumped together by the press in the 1980s (in truth, we find out in McCarthy’s memoir Brat that he was not friends or socialized with any of the so-called Pack). For the last two decades, however, he has been a travel writer, and his latest book is a recounting of his journey with his teenaged son walking the Camino de Santiago, a well-known 500-mile pilgrimage across Spain. McCarthy is open and honest about his strained relationship with his kids, his attempts to improve them, and how his divorce from their mother affected them. We are following not just the 5-week trip by foot along the Camino and the characters they meet along the way (and the fights they have themselves), but also the story of their father-son journey so far. Anyone who has had a kid or was a kid (or has had to travel with kids) will relate.

9. They Called Us Enemy, George Takei with Justin Eisinger, Steven Scott, and Harmony Becker. Takei is best known as Mr. Sulu on the original Star Trek series, for his deep voice, and for his activism. In this graphic novel, Takei tells the story of his experience as a Japanese American incarcerated in a “relocation center” by the US government during World War II. I think that young people might be surprised to find out that this happened in our own country, that American citizens were rounded up and basically imprisoned for their ethnicity, and that there are echoes of this happening in today’s society.

10. Love People, Use Things: Because the Opposite Never Works, Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus. Millburn and Nicodemus are the Minimalists, authors and podcasters who promote minimalism, a lifestyle advocating owning less stuff at its core. In their previous books, on their podcast, and in a documentary, they recounted their journeys to discovering the lifestyle and how it has helped their mental well-being, their health, and their relationships. Here, they further provide an outline for the reader to improve their relationships with their stuff and their loved ones; the end goal is to become unencumbered by material possessions and to live a more intentional life. Every few years, I need to come across one of their books as a reminder.

Books that just missed the cut: Fresh Complaint, Jeffrey Eugenides; Romantic Comedy, Curtis Sittenfeld; The Trackers, Charles Frazier; I Heard the Owl Call My Name, Margaret Craven; Mrs. Plansky’s Revenge, Spencer Quinn; I Am Homeless If This is Not My Home, Lorrie Moore.